It’s a shame when someone doesn’t have that mindset, and they come into a meeting ONLY looking for opportunities to talk about themselves, or sell you their product or service. That kind of mindset totally turns people off, and it just won’t work for you when you’re networking. Instead, always be on the search for opportunities to connect others. That’s when the real magic of networking will shine.
The VCP Process
Think of it like building a relationship over time. People are not going to be ready to do business with you the first time they meet you. They need to get to know you first, learn about your heart and your character, learn more about your products and services, and truly learn about how you serve others. As this relationship grows, they will be more inclined to do business with you directly, as well as refer others to you.
“V-C-P” represents that relationship as it develops, and it stands for “Visibility - Credibility - Profitability.”
At first, people don’t know you at all. So when they meet you, you are going from “nothing” to “Visibility.” As they learn more about you, they move into the “Credibility” phase. And then, once they feel comfortable working with you and referring others to you, that is when you have finally moved into “Profitability.“
Keep in mind, everybody you know is in a different one of these phases with you. And when you first meet someone, you are at the very first phase. Don’t look to land a deal in that first conversation...instead just look to move them into the next (correct) phase.
“This simple concept has made a bigger difference in more people’s networking efforts than any other single idea I’ve discussed.”Dr Ivan Misner
(This concept is taught by Dr Ivan Misner, founder of BNI. Learn more here: https://ivanmisner.com/what-is-the-vcp-process/)
Two Types of Groups
There are two types of networking groups - exclusive and non-exclusive. I think it’s important to become a part of both kinds!
Exclusive Networking Groups
“Exclusive” groups have several rules in place to encourage and increase the number of referrals that each member receives. Typically, these groups only allow one person per business category. The purpose of this is to focus your referrals to that one person.
Even so, most of these groups aim to have multiple categories, even within a given industry, so that more people can join the group. It seems that 25-35 people in a group is a good number (although I have seen successful groups of more and fewer people).
These groups may also have rules about attendance, number of referrals given, and several other factors to increase the participation in the group by all members.
Each group is unique in its character and how it operates. Try out several, and see where you click the best. Even within one organization, there may be multiple different chapters that meet around your city... find the one that fits you the best.
Note -- Based on the rules of the group, you are only allowed to be a member of one exclusive group at a time.
Non-Exclusive Networking Groups
The other type of networking group is “non-exclusive.” Typically, these groups have NO restriction by category, are wide open and welcome multiple people from similar industries.
They also may have lesser rules governing attendance and referrals.
You can see why I recommend that you become a part of one exclusive group, and multiple non-exclusive groups.
Your exclusive group will be your core networking family. And yet there will be multiple opportunities at other groups that you don’t want to overlook!
Also, I’m always on the lookout for those who don’t already have an exclusive group to come take a free look at mine. (You can visit twice for free, and breakfast is on us! Comment or Email me for more info!)
Networking in San Diego
In my next post, I’ll share some of my favorite networking groups in San Diego, and how you can find them and others.
What works for you?
In the meantime, what works for you? Do you “do networking?” What principles or mindsets have you found to be the most successful? What would you recommend others do, think or say as they look to include networking in their business?
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